I ponder and wonder.
Does being in relationship results in happiness in both parties?
I observed and experienced it myself
how tiring and emotionally drained can
one be being in a relationship.
Do we really gain happiness or do we just
end up fighting, arguing all the time
of meaningless things?
I guess the reason I am SINGLE right now
is because I simply enjoy my life right now.
I have someone who cares about me alot.
And best thing of all, I began to learn
how to communicate with someone
without having to argue.
It has been great so far.
For the past years going out with him,
we have never argued.
He NEVER ever failed to make me smile
each time we talked on the phone or meet up.
I find this to be sureal and unbelievable
as I tend to argue with the opposite sex ALOT.
So, Im happy being single.
There's no strings attached.
All girls would like to be married with the guy she loves.
Honestly, I dread it when friends kept bringing
the topic that "Im still single."
Well. why do they bother when
I'm actually pleased with my life now.
All I know, I cannot make the same mistake
of being with the wrong guy.
I cannot afford to waste time being with the wrong guy.
I guess in life, we might take abit more time
bumping to "the one."
"The One" that be with you for the rest of your life.
He, will be the one that you can depend on.
He, who will be with you when you're feeling down,
happy, crazy or kiddish.
He, who accepts your flaws.
He, who will love you wholeheartedly.
So, I guess a lil of waiting doesn't do any harm at all.
^_^
